How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

I am a 14 year old male asian of course I don't know what I am doing wrong but I alway used to have hot shower and alway wash my hair with really hot water but then started using cold water but my hair got kind of long so I cut my hair really short but then i kept having cold shower with washing my hair cold each day but it seem it still seem very unhealthy in every way, I only shampoo and all that once or twice a week for my hair. What can I do?!

sorry I used conditioners as well

How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

The #1 best hair conditioner is olive oil.

Put lots of it in your hair. Work it into your hair really well. Wrap your head up in a towel and forget about it for at least one hour. Very important! This gives the oil a chance to be absorbed completely by your hair.

Now shampoo your hair with warm water.

Your hair will be soft and healthy.

Never wash your hair with hot or with cold water. The hot water strips out the natural oils in your hair. The cold water does not work with shampoo, so all you get is a mess of unwashed grease and unrinsed shampoo on your head!

How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

i think you should also consider the diet that you take... eat food rich in protein so that your hair will be healthy.. and you should also drink a lot of water... sometimes the shampoo that we use doesnt match wth our hair types, trying using different one, maybe it will make your hair look healty

How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

try using coconut milk. leave it on to your hair for 30 minutes and if you have a shower cap, put it on. rinse off with nice smelling conditioner. tried and tested

How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

get a treatment for your hair. the fackt that you use hot or cold water doesn't really matter. you get treatments to deal with all of your hair "symptoms"! also use a shampoo for straight hair, if that doesn'y work, use a hair straightner!

How to get Long lasting smooth,healthy and undried hair? maybe straight too?

use mousse